How to Declutter Every Room in your Home for Good

how to declutter every room in your home for good

Everyone is busy these days. We're trying to eat right, exercise more, do meaningful work, be a better friend, attend more happy hours... It's exhausting.

Our homes are supposed to be our retreat from the rest of the busy world - where we go to relax and enjoy time with family and friends. However, the unfinished projects, mismatched styles you hate, and extra stuff you no longer need in your home, leave you feeling anything but comfortable.

Sound familar?

Fortunately, there is a solution.

And that solution is called simplification. 

You see, we're told by the media we need this and that and pretty soon we have SO MUCH excess stuff. Rather than feeling satisfied with the items filling our home, they're bogging us down and making us unhappy at home.

We all have become so accustomed to having so much stuff (myself included), that we don’t even realize how much we’ve acquired over time.

Imagine if we fill our homes with just our very favorite things -- photographs that bring back fond memories, comfortable furniture, colors that make us happy -- how different we would feel every time we walk into our home after a long, busy day.

If we can simplify our home and reduce items to only want we need and love, and get rid of the excess stuff that clutters our home and stresses us out, we can eliminate those negative feelings and allocate the saved resources (money, less time cleaning, etc.) towards experiences and things you love that will enrich your life. Sounds great, right?!

Are you tired of feeling irritated when you come home because you aren't sure what to do with unfinished rooms that stare you down?

Do you want to get rid of the clutter and have a well-organized home but don't know how to get there?

Do you blow your decorating budget only to hate everything a few months later?

If you find yourself nodding along, this post is for you. You're certainly not alone here.

By shifting to a simpler, dare I say minimalist, lifestyle, you can reduce stress, irritation, and procrastination of completing projects, and focus on the things that really matter to you.

I've outlined the steps below you can implement right away to simplify your home room by room and start your journey to a beautiful, simpler home and life you love.

UNDERSTAND THE WHY

Before you start decluttering your home, it's important to take a few moments to consider why you're heading into this lifestyle change. Why do you want to declutter your home and live simpler? How are you feeling right now? Then, think about how you think you may feel after decluttering and moving toward a simpler lifestyle. What would your day to day look like? What will be the best improvement for you? Remind yourself of this anytime you feel doubt creep in.

THE DECLUTTERING PROCESS

  1. Start in one room and get rid of everything you haven't used in the last year.
  2.  Then, if there are duplicates (same sizes, colors, types,) whittle it down until you have enough to get by and eliminate the extras.

THE KEY IS TO BE REALISTIC

  • If you haven't used it in the last year, you probably won't use it the next year.
  • If it's broken and you still haven't fixed it, you probably never will.
  • If you once loved it, but it no longer has a use (old gaming system, old phone...) Get rid of it.

Tackle one room at a time, don't rush, and be gracious with yourself. Going through your belongings takes time and can be emotional. But you have to start somewhere.

There are many organizations that happily take donations and can use the items you no longer need.

START SMALL

Start in your smallest room (closet or bathroom perhaps) and begin going through one drawer. Once you start seeing the progress you've made (and how awesome it is), build on that momentum as you move on to the next area.

By breaking it into chunks by room it seems less overwhelming and impossible.

Remember, action takers see the best results!

So, let's start with your first room.

BATHROOM

The bathroom is a breeding ground for junk -- all the makeup, skincare, hair products, and half-used bottles cluttering our cabinets. If you haven't used something in a year or you have way too many towels for you to possibly use in a month before laundry day, get rid of them. Be honest with yourself. Believe me, you’ll be much happier when you see you start to see an organized bathroom!

One make up tip I follow to help beat clutter is I only have one item at a time and then I don't get a new one until it's gone. For example, I only have one mascara, one bronzer, one blush, etc. and I use them until they're gone before I buy a replacement.

Some things you can get rid of right off the bat:

  • Expired prescription medications
  • Half-full bottles of shampoo, conditioner, shower gel, etc.
  • Expired sunscreen or bug spray
  • Hardened bottles of nail polish
  • Old make-up products and brushes
  • Medicines or vitamins you no longer need or take
  • Old towels

KITCHEN

Go through all your pots, pans, utensils, storage containers and remove anything you haven't used in the last year. Then, get rid of the duplicates. If you only cook 3 times a week, you don't really need 20 spatulas. Keep what you need to get you through the week, and then get rid of the rest. The single-use kitchen appliances are not only inefficient, but they take up huge amounts of space so they should be removed.

  • Ice cream maker
  • Popcorn popper
  • Yogurt machine
  • Waffle iron
  • Rice cooker
  • Bread machine
  • Panini press
  • Juicer

For me, I cook about 3-4 times a week and make enough for leftovers to bring to lunch. My dishes usually require one large pan and/or one large pot. To prep, I use a cutting board, sharp knife, and couple stirring spoons. That means our kitchen has a couple cutting boards, a couple sharp knifes for chopping vegetables, and about 5 stirring spoons/spatulas.

To pack leftovers, I have enough Rubbermaid containers to store away, but nothing extra.

Because we've simplified our kitchen and only filled it with what we need, our small galley kitchen has ample storage and we don't even fill all of the cupboards! It also allows room to store away the toaster and blender we use daily so they aren't sitting on the counter.

LIVING ROOM

The living  room can quickly turn into a danger zone if you're not careful. Gaming systems, DVDs, and books multiply and suddenly your living room is full. Go through every single DVD and only keep the movies you actually watched in the last year. Same goes for games and the gaming systems.

An even better solution to cutting clutter is going digital. Buy and download movies and games on your iPad or Amazon account and you can get rid of physical DVDs for good.

I am far from a movie buff (you can name almost any movie and you can bet I haven't watched it) so the living room wasn't a huge problem area for us.

BEDROOMS

You know the drill. Go through every drawer, vanity, storage bin and get rid of everything you haven't used in the last year. This should be a fairly easy room to tackle as long as you're bedroom has not become a storage area.

My biggest culprit in the bedroom is jewelry stored on my vanity. I have my everyday jewelry out, but the statement necklaces and other earrings I wear occasionally end up all over the vanity cluttering it up. Keeping the jewelry to only the items I wear and love and getting rid of the others helps keeping my vanity clean much easier.

CLOSETS

Can you believe the average person only wears about 20% of their closet? That's a lot of wasted space (and money)!

While most of us hold onto clothes thinking we'll need it someday, the reality is we will probably never wear it. Again, it's that mindset shift where if we fill our closets with stuff we actually wear and love, getting dressed will be much easier.

Time to get rid of the worn out shoes, jeans that don't fit, and the tops just aren't your style. If you haven't worn it in the last year, you won't miss it any way!

Take EVERYTHING in your closet and dresser and dump it on your bed so your closet is empty. Then, take each item and put it in 1 of 4 piles:

  • Love - I love and wear these items constantly.
  • Maybe - I want to keep it but don't know why (we all have some).
  • Donate - These items do not fit me well or my lifestyle
  • Trash - These items are worn out and can't be repurposed.

Don't think too hard about it, the answer should be pretty obvious. Once you've gone through the entire pile on your bed, bag up the trash and donate piles and load them in your car ready to drop off or put them somewhere out of sight.

Take each item in your Maybe pile and ask yourself these questions

  1. Would I buy this in the store today?
  2. Will I wear this in the next 3-6 months (or ever)?

If the answer is no, start another donate pile. If yes, put it away in your closet.

Put everything in your Love pile back in your closet neatly.

One of the hardest parts for me when cleaning out my closet is the guilt of getting rid of something that I paid decent money for. I try to sell items that are still worth something and in good shape, but I honestly find it sits around longer because it didn't sell on eBay and makes me frustrated when I see that reminder in my closet.

Part of living simpler means buying less. Sometimes it takes getting rid of perfectly good $80 pants you wore once to stop spending money on things you don't truly love.

Remember, if you're questioning anything, remind yourself of these 3 things:

  • If you haven't used it in the last year, you probably won't use it the next year.
  • If it's broken and you still haven't fixed it, you probably never will.
  • If you once loved it, but it no longer has a use (old gaming system, old phone, black dress pants...) Get rid of it.

The point isn't to see how much stuff you can get rid of, it's simply freeing yourself from the items cluttering your home you don't use.

Decluttering is a Process

Remember that living a simpler life is a process and takes time. Start somewhere but give yourself grace for not completely overhauling your home in one day. Like anything, it takes practice and persistence. Being vigilant about clutter will take some learning, and to a certain extent, things will always need to be exfoliated from your home. Processes like regularly scheduled de-cluttering sessions and buying less will go a long way towards making decluttering easier.

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